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Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Day 9


Still no electricity! It’s been about 2 days without it which also means no running water and I need to shower badly. This morning I woke up around 8 so we could go to the Internet CafĂ© in Agona and do some market shopping. I got really nice emails back from my family and friends. It’s nice to hear about their lives when you feel so disconnected from it all. When I’m literally living half a world away it’s nice to read the email from a familiar face. I had so many emails to write and things to check that we stayed there for 2 hours. We then ventured into the Agona market for the first time. The market is somewhat organized but hectic too. It was definitely a lot cleaner than the Wiamoase market because it’s only a one day event each week. We went back to Wiamoase so the Jackie and Lauren could get their dresses made by our seamstress. We stayed in Wiamoase and had our first group meeting. We made our group and personal goals for the next week.
Group goals
1.      Learn/ Practice Twi
2.      Keep up on our Book of Mormon Scripture Reading
3.      Begin our work
Personal Goals
1.      Work out 3x’s at least
2.      Read 2 chapters of Pushed by Jennifer Block
3.      Go to the clinic 7:30-2 every weekday
4.      Journal Daily
5.      Be Here Not There
It’s important while I’m here to focus on my work and the experience I’m in right now. This week our days should begin to seem shorter now that we have something to fill them up with. Tomorrow I begin work at the clinic. I am very excited about this rare opportunity to volunteer in the Wiamoase Clinic and learn about the clinic and begin my research on why mothers choose that as their primary health care plan for their children.

XOXO
Natalie

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

The Helpless Abrunis


Hello friends and family!
I know that the last few blog posts was incredibly long so I’ll make this one a lot shorter! The days here go by SO SLOW. I’m amazed at how long my days seem. Every morning I wake up around 6, get ready, and go into town. On Thursday we met up with Jackie and Lauren’s at Mama Doris’ house. They are living so much differently from us only 30 minutes away. They don’t have running water at all and have to take bucket showers and use an outhouse. They have eaten the same meal for breakfast and dinner for the last 3 days, Mackerel Stew. They insisted we eat breakfast there even though Dr. Samuel (Esther’s husband) gave us delicious donuts to eat that morning. It is hard to eat so much fish in the morning. We went to the Internet CafĂ© and sent our first emails! I’ve been dying to let y’all know all the exciting things going on and that I’m safe! Cassie and I came back home and had our nightly discussion with Emmanuel. Emmanuel is Esther’s son visiting for the week. He is a music theory teacher and is very bright. He is informed on so many different topics it’s nice to have conversations like that. Our Twi isn’t that great so it’s usually the same conversation over and over again with the people in the village but I’m hoping to improve my Twi and understand them better. Just the other day we talked about the difference between Ghana and America. We discussed marriage, divorce, salary, politics, dreams, clothes, and many other things. He teaches us how to wash our clothes, cook our food, wash our dishes, basically he teaches us how to survive here. I don’t know what we’re going to do without him!  We are getting more familiar with the town and people so I know we’ll live. The little kids know me here as Ama (Saturday). Ghanaians are given a name based on the day they were born for the first few weeks of their life before the parents name them officially.  The little school girls come by and have taught us a few hand games and dance moves. They don’t speak English so we don’t communicate much except for our broken Twi. The fun we have with these people is amazing when you come from different cultures and don’t speak the same language. Cassie and I have 2 especially favorite boys Kofi (5) and Kobi (10) that come by every day. They are so territorial of us they don’t let anyone else come over when they’re here.
Cassie and I had dresses made for us out of fabric from Rosemary’s shop! It cost us 12 cedi for the fabric and 7 cedi for them to make it! On the first Saturday they have all the funerals of people who died the month before. Jackie and Lauren came over so we could go to one together. We went exploring all over Wiamose again and despite putting on 70 spf I got burned pretty bad. The funerals on Saturday last around 6 hours. The whole entire town dresses in black and red. The family sits in a huge U under tents while the townspeople go from funeral to funeral shaking the hands of the family members, dancing, and giving donations. We got up at one point and started dancing with some older woman. Sunday morning was a bit scary because as we were leaving for church I threw up. It ended up being an effect from my doxy but it made me nervous so I stayed home from church. I ended up being completely fine after I slept so I was bummed that I missed church. Next week is General Conference here but I suppose it will be in Twi. On Monday we went to the Kumasi market and it was crazy! I don’t really like it too much. People were grabbing us and pulling us. Thankfully we had Mama Esther’s son King to help us out but I don’t think I’ll be looking forward to our return to Kumasi soon. Cassie, my roommates, LOVES crowds like that and can’t wait to go back. I bought a phone! So I’ll be able to call soon! We actually had a really nice experience and found a store similar to a tiny Walmart. I bought some American type food that we don’t see anywhere. I bought a Dr. Sammy soda as my birthday present for myself. Apparently it’s the African version of Dr. Pepper! We went back to Asamang and ate dinner at Mama Doris’ house but as we were leaving it started POURING. We ran through the town to get to the station at night. The Ghanaians were laughing so hard at us.  I left all my stuff at their house so it wouldn’t get wet and also left our room key! Thankfully Esther had an extra and I was able to change into dry clothes but they think we are such helpless Abrunis.
I am hoping to start working in the clinic on Wednesday. I am very anxious to begin my research project and get a clear focus on things. Living in the culture for 9 days already has shown me the changes I need to make to my project. The Wiamoase clinic is amazing. I can’t wait to start working with the nurses and doctors. Most speak English really well so finding a translator shouldn’t be too difficult of a task. I went through my course contract material and realized I have a long road ahead of me but the material is exciting and I’m ready to learn!

XOXO
AMA

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Day 3!!


Still alive! Today was extremely productive. This morning I woke up drenched in my own sweat around 7. Matilda who rents a room next to mine was yelling “cockroach!” because there was a HUGE cockroach about 4 inches that came out behind the stove as she was sweeping. Emmanuel started preparing a delicious breakfast for us. We had fried eggs and oatmeal. The stove we cook on is a gas four burner stove top. We add canned milk and a little bit of sugar to it. Emmanuel also cut 4 mangos for us. Those, like everything else, taste much better here than it does in the states. Today was our first day out in the town and I LOVE THE PEOPLE HERE. I honestly don’t know how I’m going to leave them already. My heart is so full with love for them. They have so little and share so much. The friendliness and community aspect makes me think twice about my life and how blessed I am.
Today was HOT. I woke up sweating and haven’t stopped since. Even at night sweat just rolls down my back. Esther’s house is right behind the primary school and today they were out playing. They yell “Abruni” at us ALL the time. I love it. Our conversation goes like this: Etesan (How are you?) Elle (Fine) Wo din de sen (What is your name) Me din de sen (My name is….). We walked uphill to the town and we got SO much attention. The first place on our way was to the clinic. OH MY GOODNESS. I may never come home. The clinic has about 10 wards. Gideon the pharmaceutical man showed me around the whole clinic. We went to the lab, records office, OPD (Out Patient Department), Exam Room 1 & 2, Maternal, Female & Male, Post Natal, Rehab, Eye, and Pediatrics. We met Samuel Baffour (Esther’s Husband) outside the pediatric clinic. Next we went through the market and caused again quite a commotion. We walked past a cocoa shed and stopped in to ask him a couple of questions. Bakro gave me a bite of cola? which is apparently the main ingredient in diet supplements. He said it would make me very full and thirsty if I ate a lot of it. It tasted like dried up garlic and was very bitter. I don’t want to eat that anymore. He kissed our hands and we went on our way. It was only about 9:15 at this point and I felt like the day was almost half over because we had accomplished so much already. We took a taxi to our next stop. We stopped off at a cocoa farm so Cassie could see what they look like. Then we went to the Secondary School or High School for ages 13-18. We took our taxi back to the market place and Emmanuel showed us where to buy fabrics to have skirts made. Rose Mary is the shop owner and the fabrics are GORGEOUS. All hand dyed with beautiful African prints. She sells them for 4 cedi per yard in bundles of about 3 yards each. That equals about 2.25 USD a yard! We also stopped by the cemetery and we saw an empty spot because someone is dying and will be buried there by the end of the week. A lot of Ghanaians are superstitious about Ghosts and don’t go in there. Emmanuel called up his Aunt Nana’s daughter Christiana because she could help us go around the market and prepare our dinner. She used to cook for the other BYU students. She took us into the market and Emmanuel told her to take us on the back roads because we cause a lot of commotion and don’t get to places very fast because of the little kids greeting us. We tried the back roads and about 10 minutes into our walk we ran into about 12 kids in absolute rags but were so happy to see Abrunis. They were yelling “How are you?” and laughed every time we began speaking Twi. They followed us and held our hands for about 50 feet. We said bye bye but they kept following us. I can’t believe how many people were smiling and waving at us. They have so much love for complete strangers. The kids here run around in rags and sometimes naked but have no care in the world. It really humbles me when I see how little people have and can be completely happy with all of it. We finally got to the market place after stopping every minute to greet a smiling face and shake the hands of the happiest kids I’ve ever seen. We were getting ingredients to prepare Tomato Stew for dinner that night. We bought 3 onions, spices, curry powder, 2 green bell pepper, a handful of spicy red peppers, garlic, and ginger all for 3 cedi 50 pesewa (roughly 1.80 USD). We made a quick stop to buy chicken and then we continued our journey into the station to buy our oil, sugar, milk, Milo, rice, and tin tomato. We came back to the house around 5 and began preparing the food. Christiana wouldn’t let us help too much because she wanted us to just sit and watch her prepare it. Two little neighborhood boys Kofi and Kobi just sat and ate their dinner in Esther’s back porch and we talked to them in our limited Twi. We sat and talked about America and Ghana with Emmanuel and Christiana. They used to like Obama but are very disappointed in him but are in love with Beyonce and Oprah Winfrey. Emmanuel likes Rihanna too, haha. After dinner we did our dishes and walked back into town to buy more water. We made it back to our place all by ourselves for the first time! Honestly I am BLESSED. The place I am staying is 100x more than what I was expecting and the people here are so friendly and hospitable. I was offered about 10 meals from strangers. I am grateful for this opportunity to spend time with these people.

May Day!


 Today is the first day of May and Ghanaians celebrate it someway, it looked like a pretty normal busy day. We woke up around 5 to take a bus to Kumasi at 6. There were so many people out walking because they get up around 3 or 4 to avoid doing heavy labor in the middle of the day when it’s the hottest. The bus that was going to leave at 6 was too full so they told us to wait for the next bus. We sat and waited, and waited, and waited. We made friends with a man that helped us speak Twi more properly. We bought our huge Voltic water bottles and left around 8:15. Our friend sat right next to us so we still got to ask him all of our questions. So far I feel like Ghana has an amazing Live and Let Live kind of policy. No one gets into your business they’ll do anything for you. The selfless attitude I see is humbling. I feel as though I will have countless humbling experiences while I’m here. On our bus we had a Christian preacher that gave us a mini sacrament. We started out with a beautiful prayer and hymn then he began preaching. I was soaking it up. He was a very passionate preacher, screaming at some points. He said “Your destiny is in your hands because you make choices that decide your fate so be mindful of your mind and thoughtful of your thoughts.” Justin Bieber’s song Boyfriend came on which reminded me of home and made me sad for a little bit that I won’t be able to see anyone for a long time but I am already so in love with the people here I am not as homesick as I thought. We had to fill up on gas 20 minutes later where I had my first public bathroom experience in Ghana. I’m going to say it now, I am thankful for indoor plumbing and toilets. This was a room with a raised ledge that you stand on, squat, and go! Our bus apparently broke down so we waited an extra hour just sitting. The bus was very comfortable but the roads were pretty bad. I fell asleep most of the time woke up around 4 and we were in Kumasi. We took a taxi that takes around 1 hour and 40 minutes to get to Wiamoase from Kumasi. It took a little longer because we got caught behind a bad accident. We pulled up in front of the Wiamoase police station because Esther lives right next to it. Emmanuel helped carry our luggage to the door greeted us. We then met Mama Esther. I am already in love with her. Cassie and I are both in the same room. She had dinner ready for us in our room. It was a spiced rice with hard boiled egg because she wasn’t sure if we ate meat. Afterwards we went into her house and sat and talked. She told us she has four kids her oldest daughter (I don’t remember her name) just got married, then Emmanuel, David, and Grace. She asked us if we wanted to call our mamas because I’m sure they are very worried about us. It was such a bummer because it was 2:30 in Houston which meant everyone was probably out but I was able to leave a message so at least everyone knew I was safe with my new family. I can’t wait till Thursday to get a phone and call them for a little bit. It’s about a 5 hour difference and I’ll be able to call them on Sundays once their out of church. We went to bed around 10.

I HAVE ARRIVED!!!!


 I’m sorry to everyone especially my family for making you worry about me! Today was filled with so much adventure already. I’ll skip the part about the airplanes, cranky TSA, awful flight attendants, and plane delays because none of that matters now that I’m in GHANA! We got off of our 10-hour flight and the sweating began then and hasn’t stopped since. It is HOT here but I hardly notice the sweat rolling down my back because I am so fascinated with everything around me. Cassie’s friend Bofoo’s dad had offered to pick us up from the airport and let us stay at his house. We exchanged 100 USD for 178.70 cedi Shannon Dunn was also at the airport patiently waiting for us. She taught Jackie how to play the piano years ago. Such a small world! Brother Kwarteng took us to his VERY nice Ford 150 truck where he had a driver waiting. That was our first indication of how well off he was. He asked us what we would like to do and we told him that we would like to see the Accra temple. The traffic is horrendous here. There is not a direct pattern of traffic. It is a miracle I am alive still with the way people drive here. The Accra temple is gorgeous. It is located in the middle of a very busy area. On the same grounds is Missionary Home and Stake Center. It was very relaxing after our long day of traveling to remember how much the Lord has blessed us with safety with just getting here. Afterwards we drove around a little more to go to a shop to buy phones to call home. We made it to the phone shop around 6 but the shop had already closed so we couldn’t buy phones yet. The boys all make kissing noises at us and hit on us. We then went back to Brother Kwarteng’s house. It was more of a palace, haha. His 2 story house had a pool, pond, gorgeous detailing everywhere. He had 2 domestics and a driver. We all agreed that the interior looked like an old James Bond movie. His wife had beef sauce over rice ready for us. We were so disappointed when she told us we probably wouldn’t get it in Wiamoase or Asamong. Afterwards we changed into skirts to take a tour at the MTC. We saw the kitchen, chapel, and each of the classrooms. We passed by some Abrunis who at first seemed very happy to see us but then quickly looked disappointed because we were not looking too cute. Too bad they don’t like the sweatpants, hair tied, chillin with no make up on look because that’s what we’re going to look like for the next 3 months! I’m not mad about it either! We each took a shower and fell asleep to the sound of rain. We are going to read the Book of Mormon in 85 days while we’re here and I’m very excited about it! I have been slacking a lot recently on scripture reading and I’m glad that I can take this opportunity to really grow closer to God and get back into the habit of remembering Him in every aspect of my life.



I made it!

Accra Temple

Ghana MTC


Public restroom

Wash room

First meal from Mama Esther. Curry Rice and Hardboiled Egg

My room!

First bug encounter, Esther laughed at us because that's a small one and we were freaking out

Emmanuel preparing breakfast for us

Best breakfast ever!

Empty tomb, someone in the village will be buried here within the week.



Secondary School (High School)

The Kwartengs!

People LOVE their photo taken here!

Our bus preacher!

Dinner time! They leave us alone to eat our meal.